Happy first birthday — and welcome to the 12 month sleep regression. First steps, first words, and a baby who suddenly refuses to sleep. Here's what's happening and what to do about it.
Three things happen simultaneously at 12 months, which is why this regression can feel particularly intense:
| Time | Activity |
|---|---|
| 7:00 AM | Wake, breakfast |
| 9:30–10:00 AM | Nap 1 (60–75 min) |
| 11:00 AM | Lunch, play, outdoor time |
| 2:30–3:00 PM | Nap 2 (60–75 min) |
| 4:00 PM | Snack, play, bath |
| 6:30–7:00 PM | Dinner + bedtime routine |
| 7:30 PM | Night sleep |
| Ready ✅ | Not ready ❌ |
|---|---|
| One nap consistently won't happen for 2+ weeks | Nap refusal only during regression/illness |
| Gets through to evening without overtiredness | Falls apart by 5 PM without a second nap |
| Night sleep stays good without second nap | Night worsens when second nap is skipped |
| Age 14 months+ | Under 13 months |
Likely yes. The 12 month regression typically brings increased night waking, early rising, and nap resistance. It usually lasts 2–4 weeks. Maintain your schedule and don't introduce new sleep associations to cope — they'll outlast the regression.
Physiologically, night feeds aren't needed at this age. But there's no rush if both parent and child are okay with it. If night feeds are causing sleep issues (3+ wakings), gradual weaning usually helps.
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